Whether we are a direct victim or if it is someone around us, now is the term narcissistic pervert is on everyone’s lips. But are there many narcissistic perverts? ACCORDING Isabelle Nazare-Agapsychotherapist and expert on manipulators, narcissistic perverts will only represent 2 to 3% of the population. Many women believe they are victims of narcissistic perverts, personalities capable of manipulating, lying and devaluing, destroying the self -confidence of their victims as well as their hearts. But how do we know if we ourselves are not the narcissistic pervert in our relationships?
What is a narcissistic pervert?
Particularly pleasing at first glance, the narcissistic pervert will present himself first care, humor, sympathy… In other words, perfect. But once we are caught in his nets, its behavior will completely change. He can be capable of sadism to his spouse, chained to guilt and diminished in value should be pleasing and seductive. If we can easily identify the victims of a narcissistic pervert, how can we know if we are one? What if the person who puts himself in the victim position while manipulating another, is seduced and experiences jealousy, are we?
How can you be a narcissistic pervert?
According to Christine Calonne, psychologist and psychotherapist who specializes in monitoring victims of narcissistic perverts, it is more complicated to know if one is oneself. Narcissistic personalities suffer from a personality disorder that can be passed from one generation to another, not inherited but because of family pattern. the narcissistic personality disorder usually rooted within the family relationship. One person will commit a narcissistic distortion to another, who will then develop this personality disorder.
The narcissistic pervert will hold on to his victim by limiting his autonomy, lowering him to the status of something and practicing a moral harassment every day accompanied by permanent and widespread violence.
Unable to manage his own psychological faults, the narcissistic pervert transfers it to his victim, trying to make him as sick as he is. After a period of perfect manners, also called a “honeymoon”, the narcissistic pervert then isolates his victimnot understanding what he could have done to deserve his wrath and to try in every way to recover his executioner and to raise his esteem.
Being in a toxic relationship with someone you want to be happy with can be discouraging.
– KL (@keolalove) July 12, 2022
What is a narcissistic pervert?
Because he thinks he can’t be accused of any evils, a narcissistic pervert can’t ask. And so don’t be surprised if he’s a narcissistic pervert. Asking yourself the question should already be a sign that you are not a narcissistic pervert.
It’s not impossible for him to ask himself, but it’s very rare, and the narcissistic pervert has to lose something for it to happen-like he’s holding his victim. The narcissistic pervert is very good liar and manipulator : he has a habit of rewriting history to fit the version of events he wants. He has always been successful in spreading doubt and redirecting discussion to establish his need for superiority, demean his victim and make him doubt himself in the process.
How do I know if I’m a narcissistic pervert?
According to Christine Calonne, there is many questions you can ask yourself to see if we can assimilate our behavior to a narcissistic pervert.
- Do I blame my problems on others?
- the I always try to be right ?
- Am I used to it make others suffer so as not to feel my own pain and calm my emotions?
- Do I change the subject when I am forced to ask myself?
- Do I have to express my superiority to others?
- Am I asking myself to better attract, maneuver, dominate?
- Am I constantly developing strategies to better manipulate others and achieve my goals?
- Can I feel empathyguilt, or guilt after committing past behaviors?
- Do I have the ability to ridicule, ridicule, blackmail, humiliate, psychologically abuse and damage my self-esteem when someone opposes me?
- Am I concerned about my reputation and being able to present a perfect image to the public, but harm the private?
- Am I self -centered?
- Can I pass myself as a victim in a situation to embarrass another, even to find witnesses if necessary?
- Am I creating conflicts and am I in a balance of power?
- Can I apologize ?
- Am I happy to see others suffer?
- Did his goodness scare me?
- Can I see how far I can go to keep holding on to my victim?
These questions allow us to determine whether we have adopted the behavior of a narcissistic pervert. But it’s possible not to have narcissistic personality disorder, but still adopt the toxic nature of our relationships – whether they’re romantic, friendly or even family. A person who is always negative and critical, who complains of not asking for help for everyone and has an aggressive, abusive and contemptuous behavior should not be part of narcissistic biases but remain a toxic person.
Will a narcissistic pervert change?
A narcissistic pervert is immutable, simply because he could not ask himself. But if he finds himself missing the victim, he will find himself alone in the face of his suffering and then realize his true grief. A toxic person, on the other hand, if he decides to work on himself, will always improve. In any case, the person should be aware of the problem and feel the need to change. If he already knows the first steps, these changes need to be implemented.
If you walk away from an abusive, negative, toxic, one-sided relationship or Friendship you have won.
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